These Would You Rather questions to ask your girlfriend are sweet, playful and thoughtful. They are perfect for texting, video calls and date nights, and every answer tells you a little more about what makes her smile.
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60 Girlfriend Would You Rather Questions
1. Would you rather have me cook you breakfast in bed or have me plan a surprise picnic?
Morning treat or afternoon surprise.
Vote and see results →2. Would you rather get flowers for no reason or get a love note for no reason?
Petals or words.
Vote and see results →3. Would you rather go shopping together or go to a bookstore together?
Bags or books.
Vote and see results →4. Would you rather have a spa day together or have an adventure day together?
Relax or rush.
Vote and see results →5. Would you rather have me remember every little detail you tell me or have me plan the perfect date every month?
Listener or planner.
Vote and see results →6. Would you rather watch your favorite show with you or read your favorite book?
Screen or pages.
Vote and see results →7. Would you rather take cute couple photos everywhere or keep our relationship private online?
Post or keep it ours.
Vote and see results →8. Would you rather get a surprise visit at work or get a surprise delivery at home?
Sweet show-up or sweet package.
Vote and see results →9. Would you rather have a picnic in the park or have dinner on a rooftop?
Sunshine or city lights.
Vote and see results →10. Would you rather go to a concert together or go to a musical together?
Live band or Broadway vibes.
Vote and see results →11. Would you rather have me sing you a song or have me write you a poem?
Voice or verse.
Vote and see results →12. Would you rather bake cookies together or decorate cupcakes together?
Bake or decorate.
Vote and see results →13. Would you rather go on a beach vacation or go on a city break in Europe?
Sand or streets.
Vote and see results →14. Would you rather wear matching pajamas or wear matching hoodies?
Cozy couple goals.
Vote and see results →15. Would you rather get a necklace or get a bracelet?
Close to your heart or on your wrist.
Vote and see results →16. Would you rather have me know your coffee order by heart or have me know your favorite flower?
Little details.
Vote and see results →17. Would you rather have a movie night with all your favorites or have a karaoke night with all your favorites?
Watch or sing.
Vote and see results →18. Would you rather go to a pottery class together or go to a painting class together?
Clay or canvas.
Vote and see results →19. Would you rather get a hug every morning or get a kiss on the forehead every night?
Start or end the day with love.
Vote and see results →20. Would you rather plan our dream home together or plan our dream trip together?
Home base or adventure.
Vote and see results →21. Would you rather have me make you a scrapbook or have me make you a video montage?
Paper memories or video memories.
Vote and see results →22. Would you rather get a surprise trip or get a surprise party?
Away or with everyone.
Vote and see results →23. Would you rather go stargazing with blankets or go to a sunset viewpoint?
Night sky or golden hour.
Vote and see results →24. Would you rather have me get along with your best friend or have me get along with your mom?
Both matter. Which first?
Vote and see results →25. Would you rather watch a sunrise at the beach or watch the snow fall from a cabin?
Warm morning or cozy winter.
Vote and see results →26. Would you rather have breakfast at a cute cafe or have dinner at a fancy restaurant?
Brunch or dinner date.
Vote and see results →27. Would you rather get a puppy together or get a kitten together?
Fluffy family member.
Vote and see results →28. Would you rather have me braid your hair or have me paint your nails?
Sweet skills to learn.
Vote and see results →29. Would you rather go ice skating holding hands or go dancing all night?
Glide or groove.
Vote and see results →30. Would you rather take a road trip with snacks and music or take a train trip with books and views?
Car or rails.
Vote and see results →31. Would you rather have me plan every date or take turns planning dates?
Spoiled or shared.
Vote and see results →32. Would you rather go to a flower farm or go to a strawberry farm?
Pretty or tasty.
Vote and see results →33. Would you rather get a long letter on your birthday or get a small gift every day of your birthday week?
One big letter or a week of surprises.
Vote and see results →34. Would you rather have a cozy night with tea and books or have a fun night out with friends?
Calm or social.
Vote and see results →35. Would you rather learn a dance together for a wedding or learn a recipe together for the holidays?
Moves or meals.
Vote and see results →36. Would you rather have me be your biggest cheerleader or have me be your calmest supporter?
Hype or peace.
Vote and see results →37. Would you rather visit Paris together or visit Japan together?
Romance or wonder.
Vote and see results →38. Would you rather get a giant teddy bear or get a tiny handmade gift?
Big hug or little treasure.
Vote and see results →39. Would you rather have me remember our anniversary or have me remember the day we met?
Both deserve a celebration.
Vote and see results →40. Would you rather take a cooking class in Italy or take a surf lesson in Hawaii?
Pasta or waves.
Vote and see results →41. Would you rather have a weekly date night or have a monthly weekend getaway?
Often or epic.
Vote and see results →42. Would you rather get a handwritten card on every holiday or get a surprise song dedication on the radio?
Personal or public.
Vote and see results →43. Would you rather have me surprise you with your favorite snack or have me surprise you with your favorite flowers?
Snacks or petals.
Vote and see results →44. Would you rather make a vision board together or make a bucket list together?
Dreams or plans.
Vote and see results →46. Would you rather have me hold your hand in public or have me open doors for you?
Sweet or classic.
Vote and see results →47. Would you rather go to an aquarium or go to a botanical garden?
Fish or flowers.
Vote and see results →48. Would you rather have me learn your favorite song on guitar or have me learn to dance your favorite dance?
Strum or step.
Vote and see results →49. Would you rather spend a rainy day baking or spend a rainy day watching movies?
Oven or couch.
Vote and see results →50. Would you rather get a star named after you or get a tree planted in your name?
Sky or earth.
Vote and see results →51. Would you rather go on a hot air balloon at sunrise or go on a boat at sunset?
Up or across.
Vote and see results →52. Would you rather have a lazy Sunday morning together or have a busy Saturday adventure together?
Slow or full.
Vote and see results →53. Would you rather get a love letter hidden in your bag or get a message on your mirror?
Surprise spots.
Vote and see results →54. Would you rather have our first trip be somewhere warm or have it be somewhere snowy?
Sun or snow.
Vote and see results →55. Would you rather have me plan a scavenger hunt for you or plan one for me?
Solver or maker.
Vote and see results →56. Would you rather have a cozy blanket fort night or have a backyard camping night?
Inside or outside.
Vote and see results →57. Would you rather celebrate small wins with dessert or celebrate them with a dance party?
Sweet or silly.
Vote and see results →58. Would you rather have our song be a classic love song or have it be a fun pop song?
Timeless or upbeat.
Vote and see results →59. Would you rather visit your hometown together or visit mine together?
Whose childhood tour first?
Vote and see results →60. Would you rather get a playlist of songs that remind me of you or get a list of reasons I love you?
Music or words.
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