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80 Hard Would You Rather Questions
1. Would you rather save the lives of five complete strangers or save the life of your single closest best friend?
Five lives or your closest friend. One of the oldest dilemmas in philosophy.
Vote and see results →2. Would you rather lose your sense of sight for the rest of your life or lose your sense of hearing and all ability to listen to voices and music?
Never seeing again or never hearing music again. Both would change your whole world.
Vote and see results →3. Would you rather be trapped in a dark elevator for 48 hours alone or be trapped in a crowded room with 100 screaming strangers for 24 hours?
Total silence in the dark or nonstop noise in a crowd.
Vote and see results →4. Would you rather have to start your entire career and life over with zero money at age 45 or stay in a dead-end job you despise until age 75 with good pay?
Starting over broke in midlife or staying stuck but comfortable for decades.
Vote and see results →5. Would you rather never be able to leave your home country ever again or leave your home country tomorrow and never be allowed to return?
Never leave home or never come back. Both close a door forever.
Vote and see results →6. Would you rather lose all your photos, journals, and personal keepsakes forever or lose all your digital accounts, contacts, and emails forever?
Physical memories or digital ones. Which part of your life is harder to lose?
Vote and see results →7. Would you rather have to deliver difficult life-altering bad news in person or receive devastating life-altering bad news over a public phone call?
Delivering hard news face to face or receiving it in front of strangers.
Vote and see results →8. Would you rather spend a year with no phone, internet or TV or spend a year with no friends nearby to visit in person?
Screens or people? A year without either would change you.
Vote and see results →9. Would you rather have every secret you have ever kept made public to the world or have the world falsely believe you committed a terrible act of betrayal?
Your real secrets revealed or a fake story everyone believes.
Vote and see results →10. Would you rather never be able to eat cooked food again (raw only) or never be able to drink anything other than plain lukewarm tap water?
Raw food only or only lukewarm water to drink. Your kitchen just got sad.
Vote and see results →11. Would you rather have a job where you make $500,000 a year but work 90 hours every week or make $35,000 a year but work 15 hours every week?
Huge money with no free time or lots of free time with a tight budget.
Vote and see results →12. Would you rather be stranded in the Arctic wilderness with a working stove but no rescue for 30 days or be stranded in the Sahara desert with plenty of water for 15 days?
Freezing with a stove or sweltering with water. Survival choices are never easy.
Vote and see results →13. Would you rather lose the ability to read and write forever or lose the ability to speak aloud and communicate only in typed text?
No reading and writing or no speaking out loud.
Vote and see results →14. Would you rather be forced to live in a town where the temperature is always below 10°F (-12°C) or be forced to live where the temperature is always above 105°F (40°C) with high humidity?
Always freezing or always sweating: pick your weather forever.
Vote and see results →15. Would you rather have to work alongside your bitterest personal enemy for twenty years or never be allowed to work with your closest friends again?
Twenty years with your worst rival or never working with friends again.
Vote and see results →16. Would you rather have your worst mistake replayed on national television once a year or have your personal diary read out loud to your extended family?
Your worst mistake on TV or your diary read to the family. Both are nightmare fuel.
Vote and see results →17. Would you rather know you will live to age 100 with debilitating chronic pain or know you will live to age 55 in vibrant, radiant, peak physical health?
A long life with pain or a shorter one at full strength.
Vote and see results →18. Would you rather be forced to wear wet shoes and socks every winter day or have sunburn on your shoulders and face every summer week?
Wet socks all winter or sunburn all summer: small pains, every single day.
Vote and see results →19. Would you rather accidentally delete the only copy of your life's greatest creative work or have someone else steal it, publish it, and win international fame?
Losing your best work forever or watching someone else get famous for it.
Vote and see results →20. Would you rather have to give up all music for the rest of your life or give up all movies, television, books, and narrative storytelling?
No music or no stories. Both feed your soul in different ways.
Vote and see results →21. Would you rather have a home with no heating in freezing winter or have a home with no air conditioning in blistering summer?
Freezing winters or melting summers at home.
Vote and see results →22. Would you rather lose the ability to taste sweet flavors forever or lose the ability to taste savory, salty, and umami flavors forever?
No sweets or no salty snacks. Your taste buds want a lawyer.
Vote and see results →23. Would you rather be forced to tell the brutal unfiltered truth to every person you meet or never be permitted to speak more than three words per sentence?
Brutal honesty or three-word sentences. Both make conversations interesting.
Vote and see results →24. Would you rather be stranded on a deserted island completely alone for two years or be stranded on a deserted island with someone you despise for one year?
Two years alone or one year with someone you cannot stand.
Vote and see results →25. Would you rather lose your wallet on vacation or lose your phone on vacation?
Your money or your map, camera and contacts. Which is worse far from home?
Vote and see results →26. Would you rather be constantly micromanaged at work with no autonomy or have zero guidance, zero feedback, and 100% blame when projects fail?
Too much control or zero support. Every worker has felt one of these.
Vote and see results →27. Would you rather lose the use of your dominant hand forever or lose the use of both of your feet and need a wheelchair forever?
Your dominant hand or both feet. A tough question about what you rely on most.
Vote and see results →28. Would you rather have to move to a brand-new city where you know nobody every two years or never be permitted to travel more than 20 miles from your hometown?
Always new places or never far from home.
Vote and see results →29. Would you rather always feel mildly cold no matter how many layers you wear or always feel slightly sticky and sweaty no matter how many showers you take?
Slightly cold forever or slightly sticky forever. Comfort is overrated, right?
Vote and see results →30. Would you rather live in a world where everyone knows when you lie or live in a world where you can never tell if anyone is lying to you?
Never able to lie or never able to spot a lie.
Vote and see results →31. Would you rather have to confess your biggest secret to your parents or have to confess your biggest secret to your current employer?
Confessing to your parents or confessing to your boss: whose reaction scares you more?
Vote and see results →32. Would you rather be trapped in an airport terminal for an entire week with no luggage or be stuck in a stalled train underground for 36 hours?
A week in an airport or a day and a half on a stuck train.
Vote and see results →33. Would you rather have to endure a root canal without anesthesia or have two broken ribs that take three months to heal?
A short, sharp pain or a long, slow ache.
Vote and see results →34. Would you rather lose all sense of taste and smell permanently or lose all sensation of touch in your hands and fingers permanently?
No taste and smell or no feeling in your fingers.
Vote and see results →35. Would you rather give a speech to 10,000 people with no notes or take a final exam in a subject you never studied?
Two classic nightmares. Which one makes your palms sweat more?
Vote and see results →36. Would you rather have an incurable phobia of heights that triggers on second-floor balconies or have an incurable phobia of enclosed spaces that triggers in cars?
Afraid of heights or afraid of small spaces. Both make daily life tricky.
Vote and see results →37. Would you rather be falsely accused of plagiarism and stripped of your degree or be passed over for promotions for 15 years due to quiet office politics?
One big unfair moment or fifteen years of quiet unfairness.
Vote and see results →38. Would you rather have to walk everywhere on foot for the rest of your life (no cars, buses, bikes) or never be allowed to walk outside again and use vehicles only?
Walking everywhere forever or never walking outside again.
Vote and see results →39. Would you rather have to give up your smartphone and personal computer for five years or give up all travel beyond your city for fifteen years?
Five years with no screens or fifteen years with no travel.
Vote and see results →40. Would you rather know every bad thing that will happen to you next year or know nothing about the future, good or bad?
Being prepared versus being surprised. How much would you want to know?
Vote and see results →41. Would you rather be forced to eat only plain boiled white rice for every meal for three months or only plain boiled cabbage for three months?
Plain rice or plain cabbage for three months. Hope you like bland.
Vote and see results →42. Would you rather have a permanent loud ringing in your ears (tinnitus) or have severe double vision that glasses cannot correct?
Constant ringing or constant double vision.
Vote and see results →43. Would you rather be remembered by history as a coward who survived or be remembered as a reckless fool who perished trying to be a hero?
A survivor called a coward or a hero who did not make it.
Vote and see results →44. Would you rather have to pay 70% of your income in taxes with great public services or pay 0% taxes but have zero public roads, police, schools, or fire services?
High taxes with great services or no taxes and no services at all.
Vote and see results →45. Would you rather have to spend six months on a storm-tossed fishing boat in the North Atlantic or spend six months isolated in a remote Antarctic weather hut?
A stormy boat or a frozen hut. Both are six months of isolation.
Vote and see results →46. Would you rather be forced to make a life-or-death decision in ten seconds with incomplete facts or have 24 hours to agonize over a decision with horrifying trade-offs?
A fast decision with too little info or a slow one with too much worry.
Vote and see results →47. Would you rather have your car break down on a snowy mountain road or have your car break down in a hot desert with no signal?
Freezing or roasting while you wait for help.
Vote and see results →48. Would you rather lose the ability to form any new long-term memories or lose the ability to recall any memory from before age twenty?
No new memories or no early memories. Both erase a part of you.
Vote and see results →49. Would you rather have your closest confidant betray your trust for their personal gain or realize that you accidentally ruined someone else's career with bad advice?
Being betrayed or accidentally hurting someone. Which guilt is heavier?
Vote and see results →50. Would you rather save a historic museum containing 10,000 irreplaceable ancient artworks from a fire or save an animal shelter containing 500 innocent dogs and cats?
Priceless art or hundreds of animals. Heart and history pull in opposite directions.
Vote and see results →51. Would you rather lose all of your old memories, but keep all your current wealth & friends or keep all your memories, but wake up in a new country with zero money?
Same life with no past or your whole past in a brand-new life.
Vote and see results →52. Would you rather never have to sleep again (with full energy 24/7) or never have to work again (all living expenses comfortably paid)?
Never sleep or never work. Both give you a lot of extra hours.
Vote and see results →53. Would you rather always speak exactly 100% of the unfiltered truth or never be able to speak again, communicating only through notes?
Total honesty or total silence. Which would you survive longer?
Vote and see results →54. Would you rather receive $10,000,000 right now tax-free or go back to age 10 with all your current knowledge intact?
Ten million dollars or a do-over with everything you know now.
Vote and see results →55. Would you rather give up coffee and tea forever or give up chocolate forever?
Your mornings or your treats. Something has to go.
Vote and see results →56. Would you rather always be 10 minutes late or always be 20 minutes early?
Rushed and sorry or bored and waiting.
Vote and see results →57. Would you rather have to sing everything you say for a week or not be allowed to speak at all for a week?
Musical week or silent week.
Vote and see results →58. Would you rather lose your phone for a month or lose your sense of taste for a month?
Disconnected or flavorless.
Vote and see results →59. Would you rather have unlimited money but no free time or have unlimited free time but just enough money?
Rich and busy or free and simple.
Vote and see results →60. Would you rather have to read every text message out loud or have everyone else read your messages out loud?
Sharing too much either way.
Vote and see results →61. Would you rather only eat breakfast foods forever or never eat breakfast foods again?
Pancakes always or never.
Vote and see results →62. Would you rather have no internet for a year or have no hot water for a year?
Offline or cold showers.
Vote and see results →63. Would you rather always be too hot at night or always be too cold in the morning?
Sweaty sleep or chilly wake-ups.
Vote and see results →64. Would you rather be the funniest person in the room or be the smartest person in the room?
Laughs or answers.
Vote and see results →65. Would you rather give up your favorite movie forever or give up your favorite song forever?
Which would you miss more?
Vote and see results →66. Would you rather be stuck in traffic for an hour every day or have to wake up an hour earlier every day?
Lost time in the car or lost sleep in bed.
Vote and see results →67. Would you rather never be able to use a smartphone again or never be able to watch TV or movies again?
Pocket screen or big screen.
Vote and see results →68. Would you rather always have to tell people what you really think of their cooking or never be able to eat at anyone else's house again?
Honest dinner guest or no dinner guest.
Vote and see results →69. Would you rather be able to speak to animals but no humans believe you or be able to read minds but forget it after one minute?
Powers with very annoying catches.
Vote and see results →70. Would you rather win the lottery but lose all your friends or keep your friends but always be just a little short on money?
Money or the people who matter.
Vote and see results →71. Would you rather have a rewind button for your life or have a pause button for your life?
Do-overs or more time.
Vote and see results →72. Would you rather live without music or live without books?
Two ways to feed the soul.
Vote and see results →73. Would you rather have every meal be spicy or have every meal be bland?
Too much flavor or none at all.
Vote and see results →74. Would you rather only be able to shower in cold water or only be able to drink warm water?
Shocking mornings or lukewarm days.
Vote and see results →75. Would you rather know the answer to every test but never be able to explain it or be able to explain anything but always forget it the next day?
Knowing versus teaching.
Vote and see results →76. Would you rather be forced to dance every time you hear music or be forced to sing along every time you hear music?
Your new life is a musical.
Vote and see results →77. Would you rather have a job with no breaks but four-day weeks or have lots of breaks but six-day weeks?
Intense or spread out.
Vote and see results →78. Would you rather never be able to say no or never be able to say yes?
Both would turn your life upside down.
Vote and see results →79. Would you rather be the slowest runner in every race or be the last person picked for every team?
Two tough childhood memories. Which stings more?
Vote and see results →80. Would you rather always forget people's names or always forget people's faces?
Awkward hellos either way.
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