These Would You Rather questions to ask your boyfriend are cute, funny and sometimes a little deep. Use them over text, on date night or on a long drive to find out how he really thinks, and maybe win a few debates.
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60 Boyfriend Would You Rather Questions
1. Would you rather have me cook you dinner or have me plan a surprise day out?
Home-cooked love or a day full of surprises.
Vote and see results →2. Would you rather watch a game together or play a video game together?
Fan mode or player mode.
Vote and see results →3. Would you rather go on a hike with me or go to the movies with me?
Fresh air or popcorn.
Vote and see results →4. Would you rather have me surprise you at work with lunch or have me leave notes in your car?
Lunch delivery or windshield love notes.
Vote and see results →5. Would you rather have a weekend fishing trip together or have a weekend city trip together?
Quiet lake or busy streets.
Vote and see results →6. Would you rather get a handwritten letter from me or get a playlist made by me?
Words or songs.
Vote and see results →7. Would you rather learn to cook my favorite meal or have me learn to cook yours?
Who is the chef in this relationship?
Vote and see results →8. Would you rather have me wear your hoodie forever or have me steal the blanket every night?
Two classic girlfriend crimes.
Vote and see results →9. Would you rather go to a concert of my favorite band or go to a game of your favorite team?
Whose world are we stepping into?
Vote and see results →10. Would you rather spend a lazy Sunday in bed watching shows or spend Sunday trying a new activity?
Couch or adventure.
Vote and see results →11. Would you rather have a pet dog together or have a pet cat together?
Walks or purrs.
Vote and see results →12. Would you rather build furniture together or paint a room together?
Teamwork test either way.
Vote and see results →13. Would you rather have me cheer you on at every game or have me make your favorite snacks for every game?
Loudest fan or best snack chef.
Vote and see results →14. Would you rather take a road trip with only your playlist or take a road trip with only mine?
Who controls the music decides everything.
Vote and see results →15. Would you rather go camping in a tent or go "glamping" in a cabin?
Roughing it or comfy outdoors.
Vote and see results →16. Would you rather have me be better than you at video games or have me be better than you at sports?
Which loss would bug you more?
Vote and see results →17. Would you rather get matching jackets or get matching sneakers?
Couple style goals.
Vote and see results →18. Would you rather spend our anniversary at a fancy dinner or spend it at the place we first met?
Fancy or nostalgic.
Vote and see results →19. Would you rather have me know all your friends' names or have me get along great with your family?
Both matter. Which one first?
Vote and see results →20. Would you rather grill burgers together in the backyard or make homemade pizza together?
Backyard chef or pizza night.
Vote and see results →21. Would you rather win a game night against me or win a cooking contest against me?
Bragging rights in which arena?
Vote and see results →22. Would you rather get a surprise gift for no reason or get a big gift on your birthday?
Random love or planned love.
Vote and see results →23. Would you rather go to a car show with me or go to an art museum with me?
Engines or paintings.
Vote and see results →24. Would you rather plan our next vacation or let me plan it?
Leader or passenger.
Vote and see results →25. Would you rather have me text you good morning every day or have me call you every night?
Morning love or night love.
Vote and see results →26. Would you rather watch a horror movie with me or watch a rom-com with me?
Scared hugs or sappy smiles.
Vote and see results →27. Would you rather go to a theme park together or go to a water park together?
Roller coasters or water slides.
Vote and see results →28. Would you rather have a bromance with my brother or have my dad as your best friend?
Making my family your family.
Vote and see results →29. Would you rather teach me your favorite hobby or learn my favorite hobby?
Teacher or student.
Vote and see results →30. Would you rather go on a double date with your best friend or go on a double date with my best friend?
Whose friends are more fun?
Vote and see results →31. Would you rather have breakfast together every Saturday or have dinner out every Friday?
Weekend start or weekend kickoff.
Vote and see results →32. Would you rather always pick the movie or always pick the restaurant?
Which choice matters more to you?
Vote and see results →33. Would you rather be called a cute nickname in public or keep nicknames private?
Proud or private.
Vote and see results →34. Would you rather have me show up at your game with a sign or have me show up with snacks for the whole team?
Loud love or tasty love.
Vote and see results →35. Would you rather build a treehouse together or build a backyard fire pit together?
Childhood dream or cozy nights.
Vote and see results →36. Would you rather get a massage after a long day or get your favorite meal after a long day?
Relax or refuel.
Vote and see results →37. Would you rather go on a fishing trip or go on a snowboarding trip?
Patience or speed.
Vote and see results →38. Would you rather have me plan a surprise party for you or have a quiet birthday with just me?
Big crowd or just us.
Vote and see results →39. Would you rather dance at a wedding together or sing karaoke together?
Moves or mic.
Vote and see results →40. Would you rather watch the sunrise together or watch the stars together?
Early or late romance.
Vote and see results →41. Would you rather have our first trip be to the beach or have it be to the mountains?
Waves or peaks.
Vote and see results →43. Would you rather have me wear your jersey or have me wear your favorite color?
Fan gear or your color.
Vote and see results →44. Would you rather have a secret handshake together or have a secret code word together?
Move or word.
Vote and see results →45. Would you rather take a dance class with me or take a cooking class with me?
Steps or recipes.
Vote and see results →46. Would you rather spend a day doing everything I like or spend a day doing everything you like?
Fair trade?
Vote and see results →47. Would you rather get a care package from me when you are sick or have me come over and take care of you?
Box of love or in-person love.
Vote and see results →48. Would you rather go to an escape room together or go to a trampoline park together?
Brains or bounce.
Vote and see results →49. Would you rather have me know your coffee order by heart or have me know your favorite song by heart?
Details that make you feel loved.
Vote and see results →50. Would you rather ride a tandem bike together or paddle a canoe together?
Teamwork on wheels or water.
Vote and see results →51. Would you rather have me laugh at all your jokes or have me tell you the truth when a joke is bad?
Fan or honest critic.
Vote and see results →52. Would you rather cook breakfast together or order brunch together?
Kitchen fun or restaurant fun.
Vote and see results →53. Would you rather get a photo album of our memories or get a video of our memories?
Pages or playback.
Vote and see results →54. Would you rather have a Netflix night every week or have a game night every week?
Watch or play.
Vote and see results →55. Would you rather go on a hot air balloon ride or go on a helicopter tour?
Slow and floaty or fast and loud.
Vote and see results →56. Would you rather have me surprise you with tickets or have me surprise you with a weekend away?
Event or escape.
Vote and see results →57. Would you rather go to a farmers market together or go to a flea market together?
Fresh food or treasures.
Vote and see results →58. Would you rather do a puzzle together or build a LEGO set together?
Pieces or bricks.
Vote and see results →59. Would you rather have our song be a slow song or have our song be a fast song?
Romantic or fun.
Vote and see results →60. Would you rather spend a holiday with my family or spend a holiday with yours?
Which table first?
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